INTRODUCTION
EVERYDAY, ANYTIME, ENYWHERE, WE MEET PEOPLE, WE INTERACT, AND WE SOCIALIZE. SEVERAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE FORMED, MANY BREAKUPS OCCUR. BELIEVE IT OR NOT, WE TEND TO JUDGE PEOPLE THROUGH FIRST IMPRESSION, THIS SURPRISINGLY DETERMINE INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP. GIRLS’ WANT TO BE ‘LOVED’,UNDERSTOOD AND CARED FOR. TO FALL INTO THE OPTION A GIRL WILL CHOOSE, YOU AS A GUY NEED TO PLAY SOME IMPORTANT ROLE TO MAKE THE RIGHT IMPRESSION TO GET THAT GIRL. “EVERYMAN, ANYWHERE ANYTIME CAN SWEEP A GIRL OFF HER FEET, YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT BROOM”
Be cool, don’t be nervous or anxious- don’t worry about the words you will say next prior to the meeting. If she is open minded, then the conversation will flow. This will guide you on things to say next.
• A girl might exhibit a 'hard to get' attitude, but worry, press on.
• don't even think about kissing her even after a month of meeting Her. Good girls hold it up till familiarity is well extablished.
Avoid stammering. It depicts lack of confidence (though some girls might find it interesting)
During the conversation especially on first meetings, have a perfect voice control. Use your best natural voice, don’t use too much gestures. Don’t talk in a very low voice, a very high voice is embarrassing to most girls. Mind every word you use, most times they hardly go unnoticed, girls use their ears pretty much better than the guys.
Asking a phone number from a girl you just met is no cool at all. Ask for her phone number in the second or better, in subsequent meetings.
Eye contact is very important. The eyes can make a full sentence make more sense. The eyes speak stronger word than the mouth can ever say. It could further enhance the communication process.
Also avoid touching her romantically on the first meeting. It doesn’t make sense to stimulate sensation through touch, even on the 5th meeting.
Be cheerful, but avoid smiling oddly
A girl would normally want you to do all the talking on the first meeting, even the talkative ones. So the way out of this possible trap is to think fast, formulate a discussion line, key into any expression she makes, but remember, do not think of what to say in advance. Relax, take a deep breath and make the discussion be as interactive as possible.
Do not ask silly questions such as, your age, address, age, hobbies, surname, etc. These questions might make you look stupid.
Learn to walk in a confident way, at least for a moment
Try to impress, but don’t go too extreme
Do not steal her number before or after the first conversation. Wait until she decides to release her number.
Do not fake your person
The way you are to act and talk depends on your location
Act as a nice guy
Make your values to cohere with hers
After the initial meeting you can ask her for her BBM PIN or better still her social network username. Afterwards, keep the heat blazing!
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